Love is such a big word and a lovely feeling to everyone, but what if you fell in love with a married man? We cannot choose who we fall in love with, but we should have at least think twice falling in love with a married man, because we may tell ourselves that this will work out, but do you really know that it will work out?
Here are some tips to ponder:
You’ll get jealous not territorial
You’ll get jealous over and over again because he cannot give you his lifelong commitment.
Be emphatic with the wife
Imagine you are the wife, do you want your family to be broken off? Aren’t you going to be devastated with that feeling, that your family can never be the same again, because of what happened?
Are just settling for being a SECRET?
When you are dating a married man you both are keeping it low and you just rely on weekends or after office hours? You cannot be proud of holding his hands because he is afraid that somebody can see both of you? Why settle to be secret when somebody out there will be proud to hold your hands in public and express their love without any hesitation?
If you think he is a good man, think again.
He may let you see the purest pure of his love, kindness and affection, but that can’t be true when he is willing to cheat on his wife. He might cheat on you in the future too.
Are settling to be called a Mistress?
What he can do to you is just kiss and touch you, but do you really believe he loves you while he still very happy with his wife?
Don’t be selfish
Cheating is an act of selfishness. You want him no matter who you are going to hurt even a child? Is your love really worth it when you will shatter a child’s dream of a complete family?
Are you really happy?
Have you asked yourself if you are happy with the way he treats you? Being a dark secret?
He will keep on telling half truths to you
The basis of your relationship is a lie. It started with a lie and it will probably end with lie. Is it really worth it?
Do you want to be a secret? / Do you want him to be a secret?
Who does not want to be proud of the people we love? We all wanted to let the world see that he is the love of your life, but how can you do that if he is not completely yours?
He may give a lot of attention to you this time, but this isn’t a fairy tale and this isn’t true love because he has a family. And being in love or being with a married man isn’t going to give you anything, but a lot of heartbreak and judgement.
Realize that men do not leave their wives
He might say everything to please you or even tell you that he will leave his wife, but he probably isn’t going to do that. Why would a happy man leave his home and just have you on the side? Are you willing to participate with that kind of game?
He has a family
Cheating can break a child’s heart not just his wife. Do you really wanted to put an entire family through all of those heart break because of what you wanted?
Don’t settle for less
Are you just settling for a married man? Don’t you think you deserve better?
Cut off communications from him
You don’t need to plead for him to come back.
How can you trust him?
He decides to cheat on his wife for you, haven’t you asked yourself that he can do that to you also?
*photo from lovepanky.com