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How is it to fall in love to a married man?

I haven’t had an affair to anyone, but I was really wondering on how was it really to be a mistress or the other woman. So, I asked my husband and some friends who have the same situation as mine and also people who have tried to be one and I was really amazed on the guts that they have to enter a wrong relationship from the start.

I remember asking him how it happened and he told me it started when the woman’s friend is asking him to join them for lunch and it became a habit even after office and the girl started to ask him if he know the route that she is taking going home and then they become travel buddies because of that.


They have an on and off relationship and it lasted for how many years and their way of communication is just text and the mistress became much more demanding of his time and effort, until he gave up and stopped the relationship and after a year or two, they ended up doing it again. And, Sunday is their day until they became a couple and they have the copulation of a boy and girl in love that is trap in an old age. She never thought of the things she has done, that she is ruining a child’s life because of the love she has to a married man.


Is the mistress really happy to what she can have when she can have a full attention and love from somebody who’s free. We all know that we cannot choose who we fall in love, but we can control our feelings and set that feeling free specially when the man we love is already taken.

Why most mistress lie about what really happened between the man and her, why they need to tell always that the man and her wife is not together anymore or they are having a marital problem. When you that’s not really the case, when all they wanted was to replace the wife. The mistress will keep on reminding that she truly loves him, that she will tell how much she love him and when will be the time that he will be with him.


I’m felt like a bummer, when I was reading a mistress text and how she really feels that time, maybe it was her idea to text late that night to let the wife knew about their affair. But, I understand that it is her way of telling that she had the man all along and she was in love with him.

I felt that being the other woman was a really a crazy tasked of hide and seek and wanting to have his time, but you can’t asked him because his family always matters no matter what.

I can say that I salute the mistress! It’s hard task to hide the feeling while you wanted to kiss and hug the man she love and just wanted to say that he is mine, but you can’t because he have a family, but why some women wanted to be one? to be a mistress? When they can have their own man, that can love them unconditionally without any restrictions.

We wish good luck to who ever is feeling this way, a wife who was cheated on and the mistress is keeping on bothering her, to the mistress who wants to find true love and to all the women who wanted to move one and who has been wronged and hurt. This is all for you, comment down and let’s talk!

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2 thoughts on “How is it to fall in love to a married man?

  1. OUCH, natamaan po ako ah..I have an ex na naging kami pero may anak na sya sa ex niya din. Ok lang sana kasi d naman sila kasal and tpos na nga sila, so he’s only gonna be a father sa anak nya. But his ex, nagpupumilit na panindigan siya at ibahay, so nglakas loob ung ex niya tumira sa kanila habang kami. It hurts a lot na I really felt kabit. Nagtagal naman kami hanggang sa andaming pagsubok, masasakit na moments, konti na lng masasaya. I ended it but still it hurts me kasi mahal ko pa rin sya.

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